To say you will stab it in the heart is usually never a good thing but with this piece is sure is! This is easy to activate and pretty to wear. You will wear this on the first day of your period so it is safe to say that this is for women only. This is a uique piece in that it woks with your body chemistry and hornones that are usually not active in the brain until you have your period. What happens after that is you are able to control what you need to, no matter what that is. This is a great peice if you are having issues getting, keeping or finding or fixing someone.